DONT BLAME THE DEVIL, THIS IS THE PERSON TO BLAME on RELATIONSHIP TALK with BISI ADEWALE.

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 DONT BLAME THE DEVIL, THIS IS THE PERSON TO BLAME

It is very easy to blame the devil if anything goes wrong with us.


Somebody raped a 10-year-old he said it was the devil. A woman traveled all the way from Abeokuta to sleep with her husband’s stepbrother and was caught by her mother-in-law, she said it was the devil.


The truth is most things that happen to us, it is because of our carelessness or Ignorance, not the devil at times, let spare that guy for once.


If your Marriage is not okay, stop the blame game, you can’t continue to blame the devil, in-laws, friends or your spouse and get a solution, you need to take responsibility.


Get to know the right things and do them, stop being careless and do what is right, if devil is truly hurting your Marriage he is using you and your spouse, both of you should resign from his workforce and gainfully employ into God’s workforce to build your Home.

WHAT TO DO TO MAKE YOUR MARRIAGE A WOW
Instead of blame games, seek to work on your Marriage and learn what makes marriage work, above all know the DESPERATE NEEDS of your Spouse.
Two things are very important in Marriage, they are called: HIS NEEDS, HER NEEDS, when these are taken care of in Marriage, the result will be a very vibrant Marriage and Family life.


You need to know how to meet the needs of your spouse and at the same time, your spouse should learn how to meet your needs too, this is the foundation that every great marriage is built upon.

When needs are not met in Marriage, Homes become boring and difficult. It leads to anger, bitterness, and resentment. That is why Couples must seek to meet the needs of each other in Marriage. 

But to meet the needs of your spouse you must first know what these needs are. When needs are not met in Marriage, Homes become boring and difficult. It leads to anger, bitterness, and resentment. That is why Couples must seek to meet the needs of each other in Marriage. But to meet the needs of your spouse you must first know what these needs are. 

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