Signs That He Is The One for You on RELATIONSHIP TALK with ANONYMOUS.
Hello everyone,
I trust you are all staying safe!
On today's RELATIONSHIP TALK, we shall be treating:
Signs That He Is The One for You
When you pray about the man you want to marry your whole life and then God places him in your life, your faith will definitely grow. when you pray for the “perfect” man who has an abundance of amazing qualities (hard working, handsome, thoughtful, musical, humble, godly etc.). You don’t want to settle for anything less, but deep down, after failed relationships & boys that let you down, you start to think you may never find “the one”.
But then, one day, there he is, your dream boy & God has placed him in your life just for you. So your faith grows because he is constantly and always making you feel God's love.
These kind of men never let you down. In every aspects of your life, they are always there with you to encourage you, grow with you, pull you up whenever you fall and remind you of God's love for you at all times.
Some people think that relationships are a 50/50 compromise; each putting in half to make up a whole, but in reality it’s a 100/100 arrangement. Neither of you are putting in more than the other, because you both are 100% in love, 100% invested in the relationship, and 100% yourself.
When you find "the one", you don’t feel the need to conform to what you think he would want you to be like, you would always want to be yourself, you will not feel like you are on egg shell whenever you are around him because he would love you just the way you are. Plus, he will always be ready to help you discover who you are, help you build yourself and improve on yourself at all times.
The moment he hold's your hand for the first time, you will know that this is something completely different from what you have ever felt before. The kind of butterflies you experience with him makes you forget about any previous relationship — there is just no comparison. You learn lessons from those relationships and carry them with you, but not once will you think about another guy. Your brain & heart are just too full thinking about your future husband.
You see the amazing characteristics and abilities he has to offer the world and you think to yourself, “How did I get to be so lucky?” You know that a guy like him deserves a girl at the same caliber, and you want to be better. Not that he thinks you need to be by any means. You just internally want to portray your best self — because he inspires you to be just that.
You would never be able to count the number of times some of his friends/family/co-workers/random strangers said, “Oh, so she’s the one you always talk about”. He thinks about you often, so in turn those around him hear about you just as much. It will always be a thing of joy to you when ALL of the people around him knows about you through the way he talks about you– when he stops here and there to gush about you to whoever would listen. When he tells you and the world how beautiful you are and isn’t afraid to be a little vocal.
This is the most beautiful part! You can tell he loves you by the look in his eyes. They way he hugs you. The smile he makes when you do something silly. You could sit in a room and never say a word, because you don’t need to. Not that conversation isn’t important, it is imperative to a great relationship (Trust me: I’m a communication major). But this is beautiful because you are just able to read each other like a book — and thankfully this one doesn’t have an end.
Building your relationship on friendship is really important. Now, I’m not saying you should keep them in the friend-zone for too long, but friends get to know each other. They like spending time together. They laugh and cry with you. They are your support through life. He is your friend, you spend time together, go on trips, participate in a lot of things together, go to classes to studying together, and make surprises for each others' birthday. He cheers you up, helps with chores, and so many other things. This is the kind of guy who is always there & this one will be forever.
He not only realizes the importance of your family, but wants to make your parents his parents too. He will ask for their permission to marry you and ask your best friends too, because they are a subset of your family — he knows how they all made you who you are.
After that, he will become the new favorite. Signs include: Your mother making treats specially for him, dad approving of him taking care of his little girl, and your friends/ siblings actually wanting to hang out with him for fun. Once he’s in the family group text, you know he’s here to stay.
You are always able to tease each other about your mistakes in life. While he is there to listen, he can also bring up funny scenarios to help you laugh off tough situations. You can also do the same for him: e.g Like giggling about the time he realized ‘Netflix’ is a combination of two words… and so on.
10. He Goes Above & Beyond
He will do anything for you. Like reaching things on shelves you cannot reach, killing spiders for you, making you breakfast when he knows you are running late, or patiently teaching you how to lift weights, so you don’t look quite as pathetic in the gym. He also goes above the ordinary to be a real life Prince Charming. When you can no longer attend the concert you bought tickets for a year in advance, due to torrential rain in the area — he downloads every Fall Out Boy song ever made (even though he likes about 2 of the songs), drives an hour to your house, gets you to come outside in your pajamas, and blasts your own personal concert through his car speakers so you can dance. Or he writes one reason he loves you every day for two months, when the Army takes him away for training….above & beyond anything you can imagine.
11. He’s There to Pick You Up
Literally, he physically picks you up after you have fallen: down the stairs, over your heels. Wherever the “hypothetical” location, he’s the one who rushes to your side to make sure you are okay. If you’re sick, he goes to the store to spend his latest paycheck on ice cream, every cold/flu medicine possible, a thermometer, and chocolate. Anything to help you get back on your feet.
The above are just a few of lots and lots of signs you see to know that he is "the one for you"
When you see these signs, you know definitely, "He is the one".
The End.
See you next time on our next edition.
Bye for now!
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